Lionel Shriver is an author and journalist. She’s written 17 novels, most notably We Need to Talk About Kevin, and in 2022 she published her first book of nonfiction, Abominations: Selected Essays from a Career of Courting Self-Destruction. She’s currently a columnist for The Spectator, and her new book is Mania, a satirical novel about a dystopian movement that claims that everyone is equally smart.
We recorded this conversation last month. You can listen right away in the audio player above (or on the right side of the player, click “Listen On” to add the Dishcast feed to your favorite podcast app). For two clips of our convo — on the relief that comes with personal limitations, and whether feminism has run its course — pop over to our YouTube page.
Other topics: raised in North Carolina by a family of liberal Dems; her dad a Presbyterian minister and her mom a homemaker; Lionel a tomboy with two brothers; how she hated her birth name and changed it to a male one; David Bowie and how gender nonconformity has changed; the far left’s obsession with equality at all cost; the resentment toward achievement; trans sports; the far right and Bronze Age Pervert; the class structure of the UK; the English fondness for eccentrics; Farage and Trump; how conservatives are transgressive now; Plato and Aristotle; the past systemic racism against black Americans; when identity politics is needed; minority groups policing their ranks; epistemic closure on the right; 2020 election denialism; Montaigne and Shakespeare inventing the modern individual; Lionel living in London and now Portugal; her fierce independence in publishing; the tragic death of her brilliant older brother; Bill Clinton’s appetites; Hitch’s compulsions and work ethic; why the most gifted are often the most troubled; the loss of desire on O-zen-pic; the high standards and judgements of the old gays; the Oppression Olympics; why beauty shouldn’t have moral qualities; the DEI industry; the collapse of readerships within the MSM; how male friends mock each other; and how women and wokeness dominate the book industry.
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On last week’s episode, a listener writes:
I’m sorry for your mother’s passing. My mom was also bipolar. Somehow through the many episodes and hospitalizations, my sisters and I were able to deal with it through humor — after the fact, of course.
I could listen to Stephen Fry speak about anything; I always enjoy hearing him. It was a wonderful discussion between you two. And thanks to you both for introducing me to Philip Larkin. I was laughing out loud when you two recited “This Be the Verse.”
Another fan:
When I was a teenager, I loved Craig Ferguson’s late-night show, and hearing Stephen Fry discuss his journey coming to terms with being gay was very moving and inspirational to me as a young, bookish, gay nerd.
On another part of the Fry pod:
I supported Brexit and still do, but not for any of the silly reasons mentioned. I was fine being in the EEC when it was still an international organization (like NATO), but I am not fine with the creeping movement of the EU towards becoming a true union of nations. Under Maastricht, the UK lost its sovereignty. EU laws, passed by unelected officials, were rubber-stamped by the UK parliament, while elected members of the EU parliament blathered on with no real authority for anything.
The big thing for me was that as long as the UK had its own currency, it could still escape, albeit not easily. Greece — which hasn’t experienced economic growth for two decades — was not so fortunate. Brexit presents the possibility of opening up the UK to the rest of the world, all of which is growing faster than the EU. Certainly the examples of Norway, Switzerland and Iceland — all of which are richer by far than most EU countries — make such an outcome theoretically possible, though whether Britain joins them depends on what Britain does with its independence.
I support cooperating with our friends and allies in the EU and NATO as much as is feasible, without sacrificing our sovereignty. I don’t know why this position is so vilified, since that is the default for most countries in the world and for all countries of the EU until recently.
I haven’t vilified it, though Stephen has. On another episode:
I look forward to listening to the Stephen Fry episode; I suspect it’s another beauty. I shall never forget your amazing conversation earlier this year with Christian Wiman, one of the greats. I thought you might be interested in reading his new essay on Seamus Heaney in the latest issue of Harper’s.
A more recent episode:
I very much appreciated your gentle pushback with Erick Erickson on his characterization of concern about the climate as scientism. Your reader last week made the case that the scientific community is burying legitimate, alternate theories to explain non-anthropomorphic causes of global warming. This listener succumbs to a number of fallacies that I feel should be countered:
Lastly, I will say that those who present this issue as a zero-sum game that sacrifices global “wellbeing” for progress on the climate are selling human ingenuity short. You are entirely correct that moving to a post-carbon economy can, if done correctly, reap enormous economic and quality-of-life benefits, on top of climatic ones. And, like you, I am open to persuasion on empirical subjects. It’s just that there really is not much credible empirical evidence on the side of climate denialism. I think that it you are very overdue to tackle this topic, in earnest, on the Dishcast.
Thank you for this wonderful email. I am not a skeptic of carbon-based climate change or the urgency of tackling it. Substantively, it’s easily my biggest substantive policy problem with the GOP. It’s one reason I won’t vote for them.
Another listener has more suggestions for the pod:
I just listened to the episode on Oakeshott. You indicated early on you were hesitant to do an episode like this, but don’t be! As Nellie Bowles said in your lovely chat with her, one of the things about you she really admires is, you know stuff. That’s the refreshing thing about you!
Look, you’ve had on people like Noah Smith and Kara Swisher who strike me as mired in presentism. They know oodles and oodles about ephemera. But talking about Oakeshott, having John Gray on the show, or even my sometime theoretical nemesis, George Will — that’s got substance. I’d much rather hear references to Voegelin, Strauss, and Worsthorne than Trump, Trump, Biden etc. I can get that anywhere, and to be honest Matt Taibbi and Walter Kirn are more interesting and funnier on current events than you are.
You’re different, so honor your difference. I’m not saying detach yourself from present reality, but your real strength is you have a broader, more informed perspective than most of the people who comment on “what’s going on.”
Here’s a suggested guest: Tara Isabella Burton. I’ve listened to her talk to Francis Fukuyama and Bishop Robert Burton, and she’s interesting. I find her new book, Strange Rites: New Religions for a Godless World, flawed, but she seems like a natural for you.
Also, keep after Camille Paglia. The University of the Arts just collapsed, so maybe she has time.
Thanks for the tips. Not everyone agrees, and I try to maintain a mix of guests. But I’ve long been gratified by the success of many of the more esoteric conversations. Another guest rec:
I’m a longtime Dishcast listener writing to offer a request: David Sacks. Please get him on the show! For many of us, David became a leading voice of reason on Big Tech censorship during the Twitter Files revelations. With the media clamor around his recent endorsement of Trump, his upcoming convention speech, and the exploding popularity of his podcast “All In,” it seems his influence is growing by the week. Your listeners need to hear dialogue with principled pro-Trump conservative intellectuals from outside the DC bubble.
Next up, readers discuss the chaotic presidential race. The first:
I appreciate your clear-eyed views around Trump. But what seems to be missing from most narratives and analyses after Biden’s debate debacle is that the Democrats deserve to lose and lose dramatically. They deserve to lose because they have been perpetuating a dangerous lie. It is malpractice in the extreme to have stayed silent and not spoken up about Biden’s clear lack of fitness for the office. They knew and they stayed quiet.
It is not simply that Biden should step aside for the election. It is that he is not up to the job today. The Democrats in power have put the country at risk. That Trump is the alternative is unfortunate, but it doesn’t change that fact.
I largely agree, as you can see from today’s column. Another reader comments on the cynicism of the Democratic Party:
I can’t stop thinking about what Ezra Klein said on the Bulwark podcast about Democrats’ approach to Biden’s candidacy:
If Democrats call for Biden to withdraw, they will be seen as disloyal; and then if Biden wins, they will lose privilege and power. But if he loses, they will be blamed for weakening him.
They believe that Trump will beat Biden, yet they have to toe the party line and claim that if Trump wins, the US will be instantly converted into a permanent fascist autocracy — even though that never happened during Trump’s first four years. Therefore, their approach is to let Biden lose, then the world won’t collapse; and four years later, after Trump again quietly leaves the White House on the morning of Inauguration Day, they can go on to have brilliant careers. Four years isn’t such a long time to wait.
The only strategy that serves their personal ambitions is to “just stay quiet and walk the calm path to defeat.” I badly want Trump to lose, and I think that he would win against Biden. Therefore, I find this career-advancing, blame-avoiding approach to be highly frustrating.
Not just frustrating, but enraging. Another reader on the risk-averse Dems:
It is my contention that any Dem nominee — no matter how talented — will be tainted as the standard-bearer of a political party that was willing to push a sadly-deteriorating senior to the point of immolation on national television many times. Such a cloud of ignominy will guarantee that our hypothetical Dem nominee will never get a chance with the general electorate. And losing a general election could seriously damage this hypothetical nominee’s future prospects. What high-quality politician would be willing to go on a suicide mission like this one, especially one whose broad contours were so easily avoidable with a Biden resignation and replacement by VP Harris back in 2023?
If I were Gretchen Whitmer, I’d be saving my political capital for an opportunity to compete on my own terms, not wasting it as “clean-up woman” (apologies to Betty Wright) for an overextended president who promised at the outset not to cling to power, but instead be a “bridge” to a younger generation.
I say the Dems should run Kamala, because she’s their least-valuable player. The nominee is bound to lose anyway, and the last thing the party needs is an internal meltdown fueled by intersectional politics if they try to push Harris off the nomination. Enough is enough!
That said, I do think your United-States-of-Keir strategy could work — albeit in 2028, after four more years of Trumpian mayhem exhausts the electorate like it did in 2020.
Another is agonized:
I’ll vote for Biden, or nearly anyone, over Trump. I’m with Bill Maher with the blue-liquid theory. But it’s sad that I have to be embarrassed about my vote for the president of the United States. I was proud to vote for Biden in 2020; I’m embarrassed about it in 2024; and I pray I don’t get forced to do that.
One more email for the week:
I don’t have a dissent — I’m still processing world events from recent days. I write with heartfelt condolences as to more personal events. I gather, from your statement under the Dissents of the Week — that you were “with [your] mum in her final days” — that she passed. God bless you for being there for her and with her.
Your sharing of painful observations about the limits of modern medicine to alleviate end-of-life suffering struck me as utterly typical of the honesty, and the generosity, that you have consistently shown your readers over the nearly 40 (!) years I have enjoyed your writings. As a recovering Mormon, I would never presume or purport to share or even understand the profound power of the centuries-old faith you clearly hold so dear. My only humble prayer is that it sustains you in this hour of loss.
Please know that I hold you in the highest regard as an intellectual and spiritual beacon, and for that I must credit your mother, along with your father. Richard Rohr’s understanding of the parable of the wheat and the tares — best not be in haste to separate them, for the wheat of our youth can be the tares of our adulthood, and vice versa — surely suggests that you reap from both the “good” and the “bad” from your mother’s life. May you appreciate all that she offered, as best she could, in that spirit of compassion, understanding and forgiveness.
I’m so grateful. Life has been throwing some shit at me lately. Yesterday, a friend with depression committed suicide here in Provincetown, and I’m struck again by the hideous vicissitudes that mental illness can bring. My faith, however, tells me that he and my mother are now finally at peace.
Know hope.
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